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Saturday, July 11, 2009

When a Man Knows a Woman - Reunite with Your Ex

There may be a few reasons you are in break up right now or about to embark on one. One of them is that more than likely you have failed to know how to keep a woman happy. Whether you are seeking to reunite with your ex or keep your current relationship from break up, if you learn and use these tricks to a woman’s mind and heart, it is difficult for any woman to resist you, no matter the things that drive her crazy. It is much harder for a woman to dump a man that holds the one unique quality than most. He knows how to keep a woman feeling fulfilled and truly happy in a relationship, at the same time making her feel good about herself, her accomplishments and her struggles.

When a man knows these simple steps and puts them to use throughout the relationship, a woman is more than likely to hold on to you tighter and harder and accept your faults simply because you are different than the average guy. Learn these techniques as one of the ways to help reunite with your ex or stop a break up.

Exude confidence.

If you have a low self-esteem I strongly suggest you get to work on it. Real women love a self confident (not cocky) man. It makes them feel he can accomplish things and be successful. It also shows he can handle problems and urgent situations in a calm, conductive, reassuring manner. This can be more attractive to a woman than the babe on the beach. Alongside this, it is imperative that you be yourself and let your true nature shine.

Petite Deeds.

Most men tend to go all out with a grand gesture, usually for a special occasion. But it is all the time in between the special occasions that add up the most.

• Taking her car for service
• Leaving a flower on her car
• Picking up the dry cleaning for her
• Doing something a little special when you know it’s going to be a late night at work
• Spreading rose petals on her bed so her room smells like roses when she gets home from work
• Picking her up her favorite treat.

You don’t have to do petite deeds all the time but keep them in the picture of your relationship on a regular basis and remember it’s the little things like this that lead to long relationships. It also show you value her and do not take her for granted.

Keep All Eyes on Her.

Men think when they check out another woman the woman with them doesn’t notice it. Believe me she notices it. Comparing other women to yours is the wrong impression to give and that is exactly what you are doing. Or, you are acknowledging a more attractive woman. No matter, your partner will definitely not take too kindly to it. Often times she won’t say anything because it gives the impression she is jealous, which can be the case but often times is not.

Whether a woman is ready for marriage or not, they instinctively will prefer a man that has values toward a life partner, who will be an asset and a support with raising children. A man with wandering eyes shows himself to be a cheater and possibly a womanizer, one of the most popular reasons behind divorce, separation and children being raised by single parents.

Amuse Her.

I was so shocked at a nationwide poll taken a few months back that said men still think good looks tops the charts to land an attractive woman. Still utterly clueless, men underestimate the power of a sense of humor when it comes to women and life in general.
It only takes a little time to find funny information on the internet or learn a few jokes to crack, or funny faces to make when you want something. Acting cute and cuddly is also a form of good humor and women love that a man can drop to a child’s level and act cute.

Share in Her Passions.

Show interest her passions and long standing hobbies. Listen to her talk and show you are listening by adding to the conversation and asking questions. There is no need to pretend you are also interested, in fact, if she knows her passion is not exactly exciting to you, it will make your efforts all the more special to her.

Let her share the things that are important to her just as you would like her to do for your interests. This shows a total lack of selfishness on your part and is a big step toward a strong friendship in a relationship.

Personal Grooming keeps her Swooning.

Women like when a man puts effort into his appearance, especially when out with her no matter how casual the outing. Poor grooming gives the impression you think you don’t have to try anymore and many women find it embarrassing to walk along side a man who isn’t well put together.

Keep yourself regularly shaved, your hair neat and cut, and keep abreast of the latest fashions within your style of dress. Don’t let your appearance become sloppy and un-cared for.

Family and Friends Integration.

Women rely on their social network to corroborate their relationship selections. Making an effort, once the first few months of passion are over will show her you are interested in the people in her life that mean the most to her. It also validates you are not afraid of commitment (even if you are), as most men shy away from meeting family and friends. A smooth integration will have lasting memories for her and moments she can think back on and share with family and friends.

Finely Tune to Her Mood.

Most of a woman’s moods that men always talk about is hormonal. Be sensitive and finely tuned to her moods. This will keep you from getting in hot water and she will also find you to be someone she wants to be around when in a mood and makes her feel better. This is a huge plus point and if you are looking to reunite with your ex putting this technique into action would be a show stopper.

Vitality and Spice.

Be objective to trying new things, foods, places to go, hobbies, etc. This adds spice and vitality to a relationship and when a man is the one that takes the reins in this area it is truly giving a treat to his woman. It is rare and usually silently left up to the female in the relationship, as if she isn’t busy with just as much on her plate. It also shows your interest and desire to keep the relationship healthy and alive for both of you.

A gentleman friend of mine, who I have known for years and nearly lost the woman he loves, shared these simple, common sense, partner attributes after using them to save his relationship. Learned from a clear simple book, they woke him up to the bare essentials of being a man with a woman, and showing how much he loves her as opposed to taking the relationship and her for granted. He shared that it made him more understanding and more sensitive to what it is like to be a woman and how they are affected by things we men don’t even blink twice at.

If you’re in the unfortunate position of trying to reunite with your ex or trying to save your relationship, you might want to investigate. There is a video attached that gives good insight into the book and some things you can start immediately toward your goal.

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If your currently in a break up take advantage of my Breaking Up Advice, to help you move forward, put a smile on your face and a beat back in your heart. It's on the house!

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