Discover How to Get Your Ex Back - 4 initial steps

Life has taught us that the more we experience and do things the easier they become. The exception to this rule is break ups. No matter how many times we have been through them, they don't get any easier to deal with, but hopefully you at least come out of it having discovered something about yourself and being in a relationship. Now you can discover how to get your ex back using 4 initial steps.


When a couple first meets everything is exciting, fresh, and smooth. After a short while the freshness wears off, the comfort remains and attitudes toward each other begin to change. The quirks you didn't notice before are suddenly up in your face and begin to bother you. It is here that trouble begins and where the relationship is tested.

Being that relationships require maintenance and effort, sometimes, when things break, rather then make repairs, the other person wants out of the relationship. The good news is that a relationship can be salvaged. Are you ready to discover how to get your ex back? Start with these initial steps.

1. Apologize

Remember, it takes two people to have a successful relationship. Knowing what exactly to apologize for is critical. Even if you didn't do anything specifically wrong, apologize for any hurt you may have unknowingly caused. If you did something that you know was wrong, own up to it, genuinely apologize, and explain why you did it and what you learned from your mistake.

It is common for some people to wait a while and let some time pass before they apologize so as to avoid the argument that usually accompanies an apology session. Although it is common, waiting isn't always the best way to go. When you are apologizing and your ex brings up another situation, stay calm, keep your emotions in check, your ego under control and your pride in tact. Talking things out is a good way to go but save it for another time. Let your ex know that at that moment you just wanted to apologize to them and you don't want this conversation to turn into an argument. Suggest you talk more at another time.

2. Chat it Out

See if your ex is up for a casual chat. Whatever you do don't beg, plead, cry, or try and force your ex into this. Make it clear that you have no intention of passing blame or fighting but talking things out is important and you would like to stay friends. If they agree, keep your emotions in check.

Be objective in your discussion. Focus strictly about the issues. Don't assign blame and the results will be more positive.

3. Make Their Heart Ache by giving them space

On the road to discover how to get your ex back you have to find the strength to put this step into action. Although it may seem counter-intuitive, it is crucial to success. A brief time away from each other, will give you both time to cool down and a chance for your ex to miss you. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Use this to your advantage.

4. Love yourself and let it show

Appearing desperate, clingy, and whiny, will only work against you. If you sit around the house waiting for them to call, checking your email constantly, or living like a recluse, you're not doing yourself any favors. In fact, you are doing a grave injustice to yourself and your life. Hang out with friends. Go to movies, go to concerts, go to the mall. Whatever, just get out and live your life. Strife builds character, so go build some!

Aren't you always wondering what your ex is doing? Put them in the same position. Don't be contactable or available so easily. If your ex calls, let it ring. Call them back the next day. When they ask where you were simply say you were busy and didn't have a chance to call back til now. This will shock them and make them start thinking. Use this tip in the area of phone calls, emails, text messages, etc

You can begin to discover how to get your ex back by starting with these initial steps and then by utilizing a step by step system to really get the ball rolling. But for now, apologize, talk things out, give them some space to make their heart grow fonder. Show them how much you love yourself by getting on with your life and not wallowing in your sorrows.

Can you discover how to get your ex back in a timely manner with a down to earth professional approach and without resulting to cheap tactics? View the video and discover for yourself.

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